Originally Posted by
Atreyu
Out of curiosity, what is the concern with a 'like' feature? (just curious - I probably wouldn't use it much myself, and I don't have access to the chat so don't know what people's concerns were)
I was shown an example of it on another forum. I disliked the aesthetic and felt it intruded upon the posts themselves in a much worse way than the "Edited by..." messages.
Also, and this part is personal, but if I notice my posts are not being liked, I will definitely feel disheartened about my writing. Secondly, I fear there will be an element of obligatory liking going on - someone who has experienced this on another forum confirmed this sort of thing occurs - when people just like each other's posts because they're in a thread together. A liking etiquette evolves, and suddenly, I'm paranoid I'm not liking people's posts enough. Yes, I am something of a people-pleaser in the sense that I'd feel compelled to like everything because I'd hate to be singling anyone out, or making people feel upset or demoralised because I don't like their post. And then, the like becomes a meaningless courtesy.
Overthinking things? Absolutely. I know that, but that is me. I would just like the option to avoid the feature altogether.
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